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  When I think about cutting the ties with my ex girlfriend, I almost relate it to a drug addict trying to withrdraw from a drug. Having high and low days fighting the urge to call,txt,or email. Anyone else ever feel this way after a breakup? ...

  I'm a bit confused. If you asked me this afternoon how I was feeling about my breakup( which my ex dumped me 3 months ago) I was really feeling crappy. But at this moment I don't give a crap, and am committed to not communicating with the girl anymore although we've txt and talked, I'm cutting my ties. I'm just confused on the feelings coming and going now. Anyone feel this way, it's been 3 months i've had highs and lows, but I feel like a real high now. and without any drinks in me lol. ...

  bf broke up with me been with him a year ive never not contacted him i always call/txt him since breakup i constantly txt and call he reply to text sometimes says hes with someone else..i believe him but he could be lying i still am deeply in love friend say he will contact me if i stop contacting him for a few days to week since he's never seen me do that. i mean ive been contacting him for a year everyday and my friend said he'll call if i just stop contacting him please answer with in depth serious answers my question is if i stop calling him now for a couple days or a week will he call me since he's never known me not to call? by the way when i txt he he sometimes answer .oh and he wont see me or answer my calls NO PEOPLE we were in a relationship for a yeaR NOT its been a year since the relationship WE WERE TOGETHER A YEAR..he just broke up with me ...

  i got dumped.through a txt today. and i keep crying at the most random times. i just want to be able to find something.that will let me cry. and just get over everything as soon as possible. any advice? ...

  My ex and I have been talking since our breakup which was a little over 2 months ago. But we talk through txt, and a few phone calls.(she broke up with me and the relationship was for 3 months, we were friends first.) I want to give it a good month of no communication with her at all because we've had a couple times where the relationship came up and I think it's best for a period of time that we don't talk. Has anyone gone through this and did the break period help the situation? Before anyone says don't talk to her forever, thats not want I'm asking, I want to know if you've ever set some time to cut the ties with an ex (cold turkey) for like a month or so and then contact them. What were the results of doing that, anything good? ...

  It's been a couple months since my ex split with me and lets just say that I still have feelings for her. We've talked, txt, and whatever but I'm not hoping for anything. If I did I would be dumb at this point. But when I go out and see other girls I'm almost laughing because I don't want any other girl and even looking at other girls when I feel like this is pointless. I didn't even fall for my ex for looks, I actually just fell in love with who she was and how she treated me. Is this normal 2 1/2 months after the breakup?Feels really lame, If I could help the feelings I would. I thought about telling her how I felt, but right now I'm trying to create some distance. Any advice on how to handle this and trust more of you girls out there?I'm lacking faith in the female population, no offense , its hard! ...

  Ladies, if you still talked to your ex boyfriend 2 months after the breakup(you did the breaking up). When I say talk, I mean flirtatious txt sometimes about your intimate times together,talking on the phone sometimes, and you've talked about hanging out. What if he stopped contacting you without saything anything, what would you think? I'm thinking of doing this with my ex girlfriend because I don't think its good but I don't want to contact her and make a big deal bout what I'm doing. So what would you think if this happened to you? ...

  Hi, I've been hanging out with a girl who broke up with her boyfriend three months ago. We've got on really well and I know she likes me. I know she's still hurting about her breakup so I've not come on strong at all. Her ex has just come back from holiday and found out and met her the other week. I know they catch up with each other to help move on, i don't have a problem with that. But since she met him last I've heard nothing from her at all, she's ignored a couple of my txt messages. I've got my pride and don't know if I should contact her again. Did she just hang out with me because her guy was away or what or do you think his said something and senses me as a threat? ...

  My bf of almost 3 yrs dumped me in a txt message and has refused to see me since (almost 3 weeks). He has yet to give me a reason for splitting up. We txted and talked a couple times but now he won't return my calls or my txts. We had been talking about our future together and everything had been going fine except he was a little stressed lately. He has a new gf however I don't believe this is the reason he broke up with me because she went after him after we broke up. Now he is angry and is telling our mutual friends that he wants me out of his life even though he said we would try to be friends in time. I never yelled at him or did anything mean during the breakup. I don't know if I should try to remain friends or let him go. He wasn't the angry type. He isn't acting like himself at all. So it makes me wonder what's going on. Any advice? ...

  I just recently had a breakup yesterday and I don't know wheather I should call or txt him yet. He hasn't tried to contact me so should I contact him? Also he didnt give me a reason as to why he broke up with me so i want to talk about it with him ...

  I like this gal that i work with. she just has a birthday and i gave her a present. she sent me a txt that day saying thanx she really likes it and thanks for the card it really means a lot. she just recently (1.5 - 2 weeks) had a breakup with her b/f. Now we are always txting. she told me that she took her gift with her to school and used it and then with her to her track meet and used it again. then at work the other day she told me again how much she likes it and that she keeps using it... further more b4 we both go to bed at night we txt good night sweet dreams. Do you think she is telling me that cuz she reall likes it, or is there more too it than that? Do you think i would have a chance with her? ...

  I like this gal that i work with. she just has a birthday and i gave her a present. she sent me a txt that day saying thanx she really likes it and thanks for the card it really means a lot. she just recently (1.5 - 2 weeks) had a breakup with her b/f. Now we are always txting. she told me that she took her gift with her to school and used it and then with her to her track meet and used it again. then at work the other day she told me again how much she likes it and that she keeps using it... Do you think she is telling me that cuz she reall likes it, or is there more too it than that? Do you think i would have a chance with her? ...

  I have a great question, I was friends with my ex for 5 months, we went out for 3 months and it's been a month a half since the split.I want to hear ladies opinions, do you think she thinks about me sexually?We still talk because she wants to be close friends. She sent me a joke txt bou what I would say in a few words if we woke up nude in bed, I guess I want to know if she thinks bout the intimate times together :) Do women do that even after the breakup? I should clarify, we were intimate together during the relationship. ...

  I guess this is for anyone to answer that has been in a relationship. I was with my girlfriend(now ex, she broke with me) for 3 months and we were close friends for 5 months. We still talk on the phone here and there and txt a lot (it's been a month and a half since the breakup). Do you think she thinks about me and things we did? Seems 3 months is a short time for a relationship I just wonder if I pop into her thoughts.I don't want to get all emotional and ask her , I'm just curious. Thank you, sometimes the hurt subsides when I think something meaningful came out of the relationship. ...

  i just broke up with my bf. we r still friends and talk. my other friend on my vball team is constantly talking to him! she only txts him and one other friend. and wen they talk its usually about me and r breakup or something like that. i have dropped hints to tell her that i dont like her doing this...( wen she txt me saying she was bored i told her sarcastically to txt my ex and she just said that he was at a baseball game and couldnt talk.) im not jealous, but he is my ex and i dont like it! i dont want to tell her she cant talk to him cus then i would be telling her who she can and cant b friends with. i dont have any feelings for my ex but its just really weird.. especially when i know they r talking about me. What should i do????? ...

  My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me few days ago and it really hurts. The whole time all she told me was she loves me forver, she cant wait to marry me, and have my kids. We had alot of fights and had times where we didnt talk for a day or 2 but never like this. She told me her reason was that i was a selfish guy who cared only for me and not her. If i was so selfish why did she go out with me for 3 years ? and say all those things ? and she really couldnt live without me. Now out of no where she lost allll feelings for me. Im heartbroken and really depressed. I cant eat or sleep or do work. Each time i txt her or call her she tells me were done dont call her ever again. How can this happen ? and how can i get her back. I really did love her ...

  still wants to go out with me and wants me to visit him, 2 days ago he txt me because he wanted to see me and wanted me to visit him, told me he wanted to hold me close and tight to forget the bad week he had on his job. He is confusing me... Both have feelings for each other but he isn't ready for a committed relationship (marriage) reason for breakup he wanted more from the relationship and I am saving myself for marriage Thanks to all for your advice! ...

  reaction is to pull away - as if he is giving me time to cool off. Then minutes or hours later i will get txt msg or phone calls saying sorry. Well, today I told him that I wanted more out of our relationship that he could not give - he kept trying to change the subject and then finally said ok maybe he is not right for me. later on, when I suggested that we meet in a few hours, to talk (I don't want to hurt him and wanted to let him down easy) he first said ok. Then he said he's not feeling well, and wants to just go home. Do scorpios gets paranoid over breakups?? IS this normal behavior? P-LOVE WHO THE HELL SAID HE WAS MARRIED??? IF you are referring to my last post, that was about my friend and I was concerned about what she was doing. I did mention that, did you not read it???? NOT all Scropios are married, don't assume things and don't falsly accuse me ! ...

  he hasn't called me either. will not calling him or contacting make him miss me? his cousin said that he hasn't told anyone about the breakup. she even said that he brought me up a couple times while they were together during thanksgiving. he said that he needed time to think things out rationally. i know that saying, let it go and if it comes back its worth it. im hoping that it is true! i love him a lot. its hard to not txt him too...but hopefully he stops being stubborn and calls me! ...

  well i have a boyfriend n we're in a long distance relationship n like ever since his fone got turned off he dont txt me as much. it got turned back on but b4 he would txt me every morning n now he doesnt i txt n call him every wknd jus to see if he'll answer his fne n he dont respond 2 my kals pr my txts so it sux.... should i breakup with him or wait 4 a lil while n c what happens? ...

  Ok, me and my ex-girl went out for like 1 month. The relationship was short and sweet, she even txted / called me on occasion (maybe 2-3 days apart) to see how I was doing AFTER the breakup. Well, today I saw her and she didn't seem like her usual happy self. She was...in a sense over the phone and on txt acting like she missed me all that time while we were apart yet at the same time when we saw each other in person after not seeing each other for a week she seemed rather unhappy. Could anyone possibly explain to me what could be the reason for her being unhappy around me? PS: She was the one that broke up with me. If anything I should be unhappy but I know I gotta stay strong. ...

  Do you guys think that if a breakup occurs real love can never bloom between both people? My girlfriend broke up with me and yet after 2 days she txt me asking to see how I was doing, then 2 days after that she called me to see what was going on and if I was alright. Sort of like a "I was suppose to see you today and I didn't so I called to see what you were doing" type of phone call. So what do you guys think? could real love and marriage ever occur between us two? ...

  okay so i started dating this guy and it was just an immediate spark..i felt we were so perfect for each other..he took me on several dates than yesutrday we finally made out after he cooked me dinner ..then the next day for the FIRST TIME he didn't call me nor text me so i start freakin out...then today i txt him and im like "haven't heard from u in awhile, kinda sad" ..then he replied saying that he has been busy and that he needs to tell me something tonight by phone...then i replied saying is it GOOD or BAD ...and no reply..im already crying and panicking cause i know its bad...i just came out of a horribel breakup of a guy that cheated on me, and now that i thought this guy was perfect i get a msg just like the one my ex sent..im so devasted..his last relationship was a 3yr relationship but i feel he still thinks about it and is afriad of a new one ...

  OMG I `ve seen a lot of things in life but not the things on youtube! What`s the most fav and funniest you`ve seen on You Tube? Mine`s Gummybear, Txt messege breakup, muffins, and shoes! Oh I`m a gummy bear, Oh yeah a Gummybear! You can`t txt mess. breakup! It`s just not right Imaginary muffin, Cartoon muffin ...

  Ok im 14 years old gna be 15 in febuary,So recently i had a summer job and met a wonderful 16 year old girl,she had a bf but she recently told me he dumped her and this was the last breakup hopefully.When we were at work she would toch my leg and upper leg,when we were in the eleavator she would hug me,she would always go on break with me and try to hol my hand.I WOULDNT HOLD HER HAND CAUSE I HAVE A GF THAT I LOVE SO MUCH and this girl knew i had a gf.This girl gave me number and we txt and just the other day we were having an arguement over who is the sweetest cutest and most smartest.PLEASE HELP AND TELL ME IF SHE LIKES ME and i kinda like her LIKE>> But i LOVE my gf And she is from another town like 15 mins from our workplace ...

  our relationship has been bad lately, we rarley talk to each other lately. when i talk to him i feel his acting cold, he dosent show his feelings any more and he never calls or txt msg me any more unless i do. sometimes even when i call he never pikup. i called yeasterday and asked whats wrong with him and why h changed. he said he dosent think he have changed. i asked if he still loves me or we should breakup. and he said : why r u asking such a stupid Q , of cours i love u baby. and i hang the phone. i have a feeling he is cheating on me what can i do ? p.s: i havent seen him for 6 weeks cuz am in a vacation away with my family. we r both young ...

  one of my friends was telling me about this text message breakup thing, and i wanted to hear it. it goes like this. you cant text message breakup .......you fu** up omg i wanna throw up. have yo heard this before? and where because i want to and i cant find it. ...